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David Deida

THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN
ONLINE TRAINING

An 8-module Online Transformational Program to Align With Your True Purpose, Awaken Your Deepest Consciousness through Sexual Mastery, and Offer the Unique Gifts You Were Born to Die Giving

“Feel what you want to give most as a gift, to your woman and to the world, and do what you can to give it today. Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wasted moment degrades your clarity of purpose.”

The Way of the Superior Man p. 16

ACCESS YOUR AUTHENTIC POWER

LEARN TO LIVE FROM DEEP CONSCIOUS PRESENCE

  • Access conscious presence under all financial, sexual, and emotional conditions
  • How to outgrow work, family, and relationships with integrity
  • Open through grief and discover love deeper than time
  • Relax at play with your partner’s emotions

DISCOVER TRUE PURPOSE & CLARITY IN YOUR BEING

  • Explore the differences between your life’s deepest purpose and more surface purposes
  • Learn how to give your true gifts to your partner, family, and the world while alive and into death
  • Cultivate total trust in the reality that is living you right now.
  • Relax with the bliss and agony of no-purpose

RECOGNIZE YOUR TRUTH AMIDST EMOTIONAL CHAOS

 

  • Love your woman even when she drives you crazy
  • Navigate altered states, gain and loss of purpose, and sexual obsession
  • Learn how to heart-pace through tragic and inevitable karmic changes with family, friends, lovers, and colleagues
  • Enter the spiritual portals of depression and meaninglessness

UNFOLD YOUR DARKEST SEXUAL DESIRES TO REVEAL YOUR HEART’S DEEPEST SPIRITUAL DESIRES

  • Learn to use words and silence to magnify love-desire
  • Grow from shared genital pleasure to mutual devotional worship
  • Practice solo and with a partner for deepening orgasm to God
  • Learn breathing techniques to increase, decrease, and circulate sexual energy
  • Understand why your deepest gifts are often capped by your most intense resistance

LEARN WHAT TURNS ON BOTH MEN AND WOMEN—SEXUALLY & SPIRITUALLY

  • Discover how to use sex for mutual spiritual growth
  • Learn to use your body as a vehicle for ecstatic dissolution
  • Design a deeply personal sexual yoga practice, both solo and in partnership
  • Practice ultimate lovemaking as unending vulnerability

ACCESS THE PRIMAL ENERGY OF YOUR OWN DEEP BEING

  • Cultivate esoteric solo and partner sexual yoga practices
  • Gain instantaneous access to your own deep primal energy
  • Explore why honest and respectful communication can be very different from heart-awakening sex-talk
  • Melt emotional wounds through sexual bliss
  • Learn the art of contemplating death

“Every once in a while, someone comes along whose work is clearly a next step. Their ideas seem to answer some collective question hanging out in the culture. Their books and seminars become an underground buzz, and within a period of time, their ideas become part of our cultural vernacular. David Deida is such a person.”

Marianne Williamson,

Author of A Return to Love

What is The Way of the Superior Man?

When you tap into the vast emptiness of deep consciousness that is your true essence, your entire demeanor and your approach to life change.

You become grounded and unshakable in your Truth, as well as your truth’s living source.

The Way of the Superior Man is a way of cultivating total trust in the reality that is living you right now. However vast this may be, reality is happening now, and it includes you.

This is not merely about “how to have better sex”—although your sexual experiences will unfold as revelations into love’s masculine-feminine mystery, and your erotic capacities may suddenly deepen beyond your born physical form.

This is not merely about “how to pick up women”—although you will become increasingly more trustworthy and magnetic by more deeply embodying your conscious presence.

This is not merely about “how to communicate with your partner”—although these teachings will profoundly enhance your capacity to subtly read your partner’s heart and body, so that few words are ever necessary.

The Way of the Superior Man is a spiritual guide…A step-by-step roadmap toward the mastery of your true life purpose and authentic tantric sexual practices, sourced in deep conscious presence.

Accessing Your Deepest Gifts and Purpose

As we enter a new frontier in the expression of consciousness, men and women are faced with new challenges and opportunities for growth and expansion.

New styles of sexual expression are emerging as old roles for men and women are rapidly dissolving.

Women are taking the lead. Men, no longer the sole breadwinners or the most purpose-driven member of the household, are needing to rediscover their worth, both in the world and in relationship.

When a man’s value is no longer measured by what he does, by his finances or social standing, how does he determine his worth?

In our new world, a man’s presence—his depth of awareness—is his most valuable asset.

A man’s worth can be found in his depth of being. A shallow man, easily perturbed and swayed, is worth less to his woman and his world than a man whose presence is deeply sourced.

Your profound and steady gaze conveys more truth than furtive eyes. Your full, even breathing is trusted more than shallow, jittery gasps.

Grounded in the unfathomable mystery of life, you will learn to be in touch with death’s vastness, rather than flitting from one busy surface activity to another. You will be sourced in your own depth.

The Way of the Superior Man is a way of deep gaze, breath, and purpose. It cannot be faked. Right now, you are either knowing who you are at your depth or you’re avoiding it.

“We all taste God, taste Goddess, taste pure Spirit in those moments of sexual rapture, and wise men and women have always used that rapture to reveal Spirit’s innermost secrets. David Deida is such a wise one.”

Ken Wilber,

Author of Sex, Ecology, Spirituality

ABOUT DAVID DEIDA

Acknowledged as one of the most insightful and provocative teachers of our time, bestselling author David Deida continues to revolutionize the way that men and women grow spiritually and sexually.

His ten books are published in more than twenty-five languages worldwide and are required reading in university, church, and spiritual center courses. His workshops on a radically practical spirituality have been hailed as among the most original and authentic contributions to the field of self-development currently available.

Deida is included in The Watkins Review Spiritual 100 List, designating the most spiritually influential people worldwide. He is a founding member of Integral Institute, and has taught and conducted research at the University of California-San Diego School of Medicine, University of California-Santa Cruz, San Jose State University, Lexington Institute in Boston, and Ecole Polytechnique in Paris, France. Some of his recent books include Blue Truth, The Enlightened Sex Manual, and the 20th Anniversary Edition of the international bestseller, The Way of the Superior Man.

 

THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN ONLINE TRAINING CURRICULUM

Here’s a look inside the training:

1) A MAN’S WAY

Where do you look for happiness? In this module, you’ll discover key areas of confusion that lead men to look for happiness and fulfillment in all the wrong places. You’ll also learn an important distinction between practices that lead to mastery of an art or skill, and practices that lead to happiness. Most men need both to be truly fulfilled, but get lost because they don’t know the difference.

  • Learn to increase your sexual, relational, and economic value via the consciousness that comes through your body
  • Discover the process of resting deeper and deeper into consciousness among the chaos of form and movement
  • Learn specific practices to develop the skill of resting in awareness and experiencing the world at the same time
  • Become aware of yourself as the universe knowing itself to fulfill your purpose from a place of consciousness
  • Learn the dramatic difference between dulling the pain of existence and rising above it

2) DEALING WITH WOMEN

Does your woman drive you crazy? This module will explain to you why women are often so confusing to men. You’ll discover the differences between the Masculine and the Feminine so you can navigate your relationship with a deeper understanding of these dynamics. Ultimately, you will learn to experience an evolution of consciousness and divine love that only the Feminine can bring into your life.

  • Discover how to relate to your woman so she fills your life with light and makes life worth living
  • Learn why men are born with an urge to manifest consciousness in the world, and how women can help you refine that
  • Find out how to balance pain and worship at the same time—so you can repolarize your relationship and move toward spiritual and sexual ecstasy
  • Avoid locking yourself into your past so you can create a future for you and your woman who is aligned with your purpose
  • Cultivate a sexual practice to help you and your woman work through emotional wounds
  • Discover what to do once you actually can have any woman you want or make as much money as you want

3) WORKING WITH POLARITY & ENERGY

How do you use polarity to incite passion and have deeply fulfilling sex? Module three is a deep-dive into the Masculine and Feminine, shedding light on many of the pitfalls you may encounter doing this work. You’ll learn why you’re attracted to your partner—and why they probably drive you crazy. Finally, you’ll discover how to leverage this polarity to fulfill your spiritual quest.

  • Find out where you fall on the spectrum of Masculine and Feminine energy across the realms of body, mind, emotions, and spirituality
  • Create polarity and balance with your partner as you dance to the rhythm of Masculine and Feminine polarity
  • Make clear distinctions between polarized moments and moments of therapeutic closeness, friendship, or functional activities like parenting
  • Discover why men and women tend to attract the same person over and over—and how to work with the polarity of any relationship
  • Whether gay or straight (in terms of physical bodies), learn to embrace the Masculine and Feminine energy to promote deep contentment and creation at the same time

4) WHAT WOMEN WANT

How do you bring deep conscious presence into your relationship so that you are both fulfilled? More than knowing what your woman truly wants and why she does what she does, this module teaches you how to fulfill your partner’s greatest desires while maintaining your purpose.

  • Learn to internalize your clarity of purpose so that you can provide energetically what your woman truly craves
  • Explore why the Feminine is like a river and the Masculine is like the riverbanks; learn how to provide the structure so the Feminine can relax
  • Discover how to be in relationship with a Feminine woman or man without losing your Masculine presence
  • Learn how to direct your Feminine partner to the extent that it makes her blissful and ecstatic
  • Help your Feminine partner transition out of her Masculine and into her Feminine without trying to control her

5) YOUR DARK SIDE

How do you use the dark side of your Masculine presence in the service of your deepest gifts? The Masculine is fraught with a dark side that includes addictions, pornography, and the drive for sexual conquest. Module five is your guide to making use of these tendencies so you evolve and grow consciously, rather than unconsciously or destructively.

  • Learn how to use consciousness to sustain yourself through the pain of overcoming addictions
  • Repattern your bodymind to convert the momentum of addiction into artful, beautiful energy that serves others and is healthy rather than sick
  • Discover why the Feminine wants to be penetrated by consciousness (by depth), which is why having multiple partners doesn’t usually help
  • Let your natural attraction to the Feminine enliven you and your committed relationship rather than becoming a burden, distraction, or temptation for infidelity
  • Learn how to give your consciousness to someone in a sexual way with very clear, inviolable boundaries

6) FEMININE ATTRACTIVENESS

How do you attract a woman ready to meet you at your depth? How do you navigate your attraction to women in general? In this module, you will:

  • Learn how to deepen your consciousness so that you attract women with an equal depth of devotion
  • Discover the true meaning of the word worship and how you can be devotional with unwavering presence
  • Cultivate a conscious connection with your partner that transcends the mental, physical, and emotional so you can deepen your purpose through sex
  • Learn how to attract a woman from “third-stage” consciousness by recognizing her as light and appreciating her vulnerability and willingness to trust you
  • Explore the practice mutual devotion—worshipping each other’s soul/divinity—and real heart-vulnerability as a way to dedicate yourself to love and truth

7) BODY PRACTICES

In module seven, you’ll receive practical techniques to begin to embody everything you’ve learned. You’ll receive instructions on how to transform your sex life and deepen your spiritual connection. This is the groundwork for healing your relationship by healing yourself.

  • Learn how to sexually penetrate your partner with your breath, eyes, and consciousness with or without an erection
  • Learn powerful consciousness, yogic, and healing practices to work with erectile dysfunction and increase sexual intimacy
  • Cultivate your capacity to find bliss and experience fullness of consciousness so you can discover the infinite orgasmic pleasure of awareness itself
  • Discover how to modulate your orgasms with your attention
  • Learn why ejaculation is relaxing and depolarizing, yet can diminish consciousness

    8) MEN’S YOGA OF INTIMACY

    This module includes step-by-step exercises and techniques to turn your sex life into a transformational spiritual adventure. You’ll discover how to maintain deep consciousness during sex, and ultimately, into the journey to fulfill your deepest purpose.

    • Learn exactly how to circulate energy down the front of your body then up your spine as you use your fantasies to deepen your consciousness
    • Discover how to liberate awareness from thought and emotional patterns so you can wake up
    • Experience yourself as instantly pure consciousness like a work of art arriving in a flash of inspiration
    • Get step-by-step instructions on how to practice the yoga of intimacy with yourself or with a partner
    • Discover how just 10 minutes of practice each day can change your life

    Here’s Everything You’ll Receive

     

    #1) 6+ Hours of LIVE Q&A Training Calls with David Deida

    For the first time ever, David has agreed to teach this material in an online format and will be available to you on Live Q&A calls. You will be able to submit your questions in advance of these calls. In the past, the only way to get this type of access was to attend an in-person event.

    #2) 8 Recorded Training Modules with 12 Hours of Audio Teaching

    Each week you’ll receive exclusive content from David’s recent events. This is the most extensive single library of teachings that has ever been offered.

     

    #3) A Private Membership Site with Downloadable Access to the Recordings

    Inside the private members’ area, you will get access to a new set of recordings each week of the course, as well as downloadable versions of all the teachings and calls.

     

    PLUS Receive the Following Bonus Sessions:

    BONUS SESSION #1:

    Discovering and Living Your True Purpose

    In this session, we will look at the process of discovering and fulfilling your purpose. When you know your purpose, you wake up inspired and take clear action. When you lack purpose and clarity, then you can get sidetracked and life becomes a struggle. In this bonus session we’ll explore:

    • Simple exercises to discover what you have to do before you die
    • What it feels like in your body when you’re open to your soul purpose
    • The difference between purposes and “opportunities”
    • What to do when something that used to fill you with passion doesn’t anymore

     

    BONUS SESSION #2:

    Leveraging Failure to Attain Mastery

    The feeling of failure is common in the Masculine. We will look at how to embrace challenges and failures to transform them into the fuel that propels you into mastery—then finally to rest in a state of deep consciousness. In this bonus session we’ll explore:

    • The root reasons why men so often feel like they’re failing at what they want to accomplish
    • How one’s attitude toward failure makes the difference between being an artist and being a technician
    • The role of failure in attaining mastery of any art or discipline
    • How to leverage failure and triumph to illuminate deeper truth and expand your consciousness

    BONUS SESSION #3:

    Pornography Addiction and Third Stage Practices

    Does pornography serve your deepest purpose? Perhaps there is a more conscious way to use porn. In this bonus session, you’ll learn how to use pornography to accelerate your evolution and move toward a third-stage sexual practice. Discover what it means to bring full consciousness and devotion into your self-pleasure, ultimately enriching your sex life and nurturing your deepest purpose. In this bonus session we’ll explore:

    • How to use pornography as a pathway into full consciousness and unity of devotion
    • Creating a tantric masturbatory practice around pornography and converting your addictions into art
    • Learning the steps to finally overcome addiction to pornography and to transform your fantasies into mutual devotion

     

    BONUS SESSION #4:

    How to Take Time for Yourself Without Feeling Guilty

    How do you rest in the nothingness of consciousness amidst the chaos of family life? How can you embrace the motion and flow of the Feminine by defining and living your deepest purpose? In this bonus session we’ll explore:

    • The difference between needing a divorce and just needing more time to yourself
    • How to determine how much time you really need for yourself, and how much time your woman and/or kids really need from you
    • How to tell your woman you need space in a way she can hear
    • How to use time to yourself most effectively to become the deepest, most conscious man you can, remember your purpose, and bring your gifts to the people closest to you

     

    THE WAY OF THE SUPERIOR MAN ONLINE TRAINING

    with David Deida

     HERE’S EVERYTHING YOU’LL RECEIVE:

     

    1) 6+ Hours of LIVE Q&A Calls with David Deida [David will be available to answer your questions weekly, for the first time ever]

    2) 8 Audio Modules of David Deida offering 12 hours of rare Teachings [Recorded live and specially curated from David’s exclusive men’s intensives that each cost participants over $6000]

    3) Private Membership Site with Downloadable Access to all the Recordings [Value: priceless]

    Plus Bonus Sessions worth the price of the whole program…

    4) Bonus Session #1: Discovering and Living Your True Purpose

    5) Bonus Session #2: Leveraging Failure to Attain Mastery

    6) Bonus Session #3: Porn Addiction and Third Stage Practices

    7) Bonus Session #4: How to Take Time for Yourself Without Feeling Guilty

     

    TOTAL VALUE: over $12,000 if you were to get this kind of live training any other way

    Enrollment is closed. Please click here to join the waitlist.

    Please email productions@deida.info with questions.

    Our Promise to You…

    During these live classes, David will be teaching his most recent work. If for any reason you find that this is not for you, simply let us know within 48 hours after the first live call, and we will happily refund your purchase in full. We only want participants who are fully committed to learning The Way of the Superior Man.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Are the calls with David Deida live or prerecorded?

    All of the calls will be held LIVE and will be loaded into a private membership site after the call for easy access. Before each call you will be able to submit questions.

    What are the dates and times of the Live sessions? Can I access the replay if I cannot make the time?

    Consider this course like a 4-week intensive.

    All of David’s calls will be held on Wednesday at 11am Pacific Time / 2pm Eastern (UTC-4). Each call will always be recorded so that you can watch the replay at your convenience if for any reason you cannot join live.

    Live calls will last 90 minutes or more to cover the material of both modules.

    Module 1&2: Wednesday, June 19th, 2019
    Module 3&4: Wednesday, June 26th, 2019
    Module 5&6: Wednesday, July 3rd, 2019
    Module 7&8: Wednesday, July 10th, 2019

    Within a week of each live call, we will upload the audio recordings to a private members area for you to watch, listen and download.

    You can join David Deida from ANYWHERE in the world. Check call times in your time zone using this handy tool: https://timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html

    Are there scholarships available for the course?

    This is the first extensive online training for The Way of the Superior Man that David Deida has created. We are not offering scholarships at the current time.

    When will you offer this again in the future?

    We are unable to confirm if or when we will release this course with live calls in the future.

    I signed up but did not get an email confirmation?

    Please check your spam folder for an email that says ‘Welcome to The Way of the Superior Man Online Training’. If you still do not see it then please contact productions@deida.info for assistance.

    How do I know if I am registered?

    If your payment has gone through and you have received an email with your login details then you are registered. Please check your spam folder to locate the email that says ‘Welcome to The Way of the Superior Man Online Training’.

    How can I get support?

    The David Deida Team is here to help with any questions you may have about purchasing and accessing the course.

    ** For support please email: productions@deida.info **

    Sometimes our emails might end up in your junk/spam folder, so please do check there!

    I identify with the Feminine/I am Female, is this program right for me?

    If you want to understand the Masculine better, this program would be a great choice for you. These tracks were recorded at private men’s retreats where David addresses men’s experience without holding anything back.  If you want to know the answers to questions men ask when there are no women around to hear them, this program is for you.

    How is this course different than the book, The Way of the Superior Man?

    This course consists of recordings made at recent men’s intensives, along with live Q&A calls with David Deida.  These intensives represent David’s most up-to-date teachings for men. Additionally, the modules provide much more detail and practical advice about the insights given in the book.

    I’m already in a good, healthy relationship. How can this course help me and my partner?

    If you are already in a good, healthy relationship, you are in the perfect place to get benefit out of the teachings in this course. The course gives instructions on deepening a good relationship into one of profound mutual devotion and sexual worship.  

    If your relationship is chaotic, David can help you understand why and channel that energy into sexual polarity and spiritual growth. 

    I’m single. Can I still benefit from this course?

    Yes. The sexual practices in this course are described to be done alone, so you can practice right now to deepen your consciousness. You will get exact step-by-step instructions from David about how to control ejaculation, open to the full profundity of sexual experience, and direct your sexual energy so that you are more aligned with your purpose right now. There are also teachings in this course about how to choose a partner based on knowing your purpose, and how to attract a partner who matches your depth of consciousness.

    Can I share this course with my partner?

    Yes.  If you are in a relationship, feel free to purchase one course and share the content with your intimate partner.

    Will I learn specific yoga practices and meditation exercises?

    Yes, this course includes detailed sexual yoga exercises and meditations that you can practice to move towards sex as a union of bliss and consciousness.